Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Ruth and the Excitement of Houses and Cheese

Today marks 100 days that I have been in Morocco. Yay, me! (And all my staaj mates!) The last three months and ten days have been an absolute blur, in the best possible way, although it's incredibly difficult to focus on exactly what has happened. All I know is that I know a little bit more darija than I knew 100 days ago, *sometimes* people understand what I'm trying to say (sigh), and that I've eaten enough sheep/goat/mystery meat to last a lifetime.

To add to that excitement, there have been some exciting things happen to me in the last 4 days:
- I signed the contract with my landlady for my new house. My own house as of January 1!
- I discovered the amazing cheese counter at the Marjane in Agadir. Blue cheese! Feta! Mozzarella!
- I got a pink Christmas tree in the post from my mum. And a slinky!
- My town got flooded and there's 10 foot deep holes in the mud roads. Swimming!

Wait… scratch that last.

So, to add to point number one - I finally have my own house - and I am the proud new possessor of keys. Just a few more days until I can finally have my own space back, unpack my suitcase, not worry about a four year-old slapping me in face as a greeting each morning, and not have to eat unidentifiable (and questionable) pieces of meat for lunch and dinner. It's no palace, but it's cozy, has a new tile floor in the bedroom, and a bigger window than it had 2 weeks ago. And very soon, it will have lots of new things in it, like buckets for flushing the turk with. Yay!

And to add a few things about the Marjane in Agadir, and Agadir itself - very pretty beach, will be gorgeous in the summer I'm sure, but lots of nice little cafes on the boardwalk, although I have yet to find the souk. Marjane is going to be my new escape, for those days when I need to get away for a hot minute. Cheese, yes, lots of cheese, which we all know makes me very happy. But also - Nutella, Haagen Daaz ice-cream, "grape juice", cheese, soy sauce, Dolmio sauce, Colgate toothpaste, cheese, good shampoo… all sorts of fun things.

And as long as all my escapes from site end in cheese, all will be right in the world.

xoxo

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Ruth and the Rumors of Spinach

On Monday, I heard a rumor about there being spinach in the town I visited for the day. And no less than three minutes after hearing this rumor - it was spotted. Definitely a day for the books - spinach, cherry tomatoes, grapefruit, and red peppers were all spotted. Sadly, since I'm not cooking for myself yet, I didn't partake of any of these wonderful things, but just makes me more and more excited about living on my own again (not that my family isn't wonderful, don't get me wrong, but I would kill for a salad).


I went to Taroudant on Monday, which is about 40 minutes by taxi to the East of me, to meet with the delegate of the Ministry of Artisana, which was all fine and dandy, and then spent the day with a 2nd year volunteer, who showed me the good pizza in town, where to get contact lens solution, I bought some cheese (just the soft goats cheese kind, but still - excitement!) and… spinach! Oh, and we found a new ice-cream shop too. There are treasures indeed in Taroudant. And shops that you can walk into - which are severely lacking in Houara. I'm definitely going back for the veggies and housing bits.


*Side note from Wednesday: Found cheese in Houara today!! In a walk-in shop!! Life is good, or at least on the up.


Despite all my cheese excitement of the past couple of days, many of my conversations this week have gone something like this :


Host mum: This singer is from Morocco.

Me: She's very good. Is she very popular here?

Host mum: Yes, but she's from Egypt, so she's not singing in darija.

Me: (silence.)


-- or --


Next door neighbor, Amina: You need to go and see Fatima (future landlady) about your new window.

Me: Okay, no problem. When should I go? Is she at her house now?

Amina: Now, go now.

(Goes and gets shoes)

Me: Okay, I'm going to go and see Fatima, and then I will go to Houara.

Amina: Why are you going to see Fatima?

Me: To see about the window.

Amina: But she's not at her house now. Later.

Me: (silence.)


I'm still confused. And will continue to be, probably until 2012.


xoxo.

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Ruth and the Ginormous Feast of Food

I just spent the last three hours eating lunch. Three hours. Four courses. Two of them were full meals. And so obviously I asked why were we having such a big meal? What was the occasion?The response? No occasion. It's just a Thursday, that's all. But my host mum and all the other women that live in our building, who are all related, just decided that they wanted to get dolled up, and have a massive meal. Really, really massive. I'm in pain. I don't ever want to move again. It was like having a full cooked lunch (of lamb tagine), immediately followed by a full cooked dinner (of couscous - the biggest serving bowl full I've ever seen, filled with stomach wrapped in intestine - mmm), followed by fruit (my mum made sure I ate three pieces), followed by cakes and biscuits and tea. And throughout all of this, everyone is telling me to eat, you're not eating enough, your stomach is too small, you have to eat more, why don't you want to get fat, you're so tiny you can't be eating enough… and so on and so forth, and they think my I'm full protestations are just the funniest thing ever. Oh, and they threw in a couple of you have no idea what we're saying, do you, and you don't understand anything, just for good measure! I'm pretty sure I'm going to explode if I have to eat dinner - I've eaten more than enough for one day - and I think my stomach is realizing the sheer volume in there and is about to revolt.

Backtracking as usual, this last weekend I spent in Marrakech, which is quite the town. It's big, it's noisy, it's full of people, it's full of people wanting to sell you things, and this weekend it was full of the Marrakech Film Festival (saw Keanu Reeves, again…) as well as about 40 of us volunteers for a Peace Corps/USAID sponsored craft fair. Unfortunately the women from my association didn't attend, but it was definitely great to see how it all came together, so that when the next fair comes around I can get my women involved. On the bus home I had some time to do some good thinking about projects that I want to get involved with, both in regards to my association and for myself, and so I'm looking forward to throwing myself in to things. However, first I'm going to concentrate on the basics - language, a house, settling in, remembering people's names. I had my first tutoring session this morning - and it made me miss my CBT and LCF SOOooo much. Everything seemed so much easier there!

This week I also manage to get my Carte de Sejour business all finished, which is good news since the stamp in my passport expires next week, which means I would be here illegally. I experienced the process of Moroccan paperwork at it's finest I think. First I went to the office where I was told I could get said card, presented myself and my paperwork, only to be told I couldn't get it there. But, the gentleman I spoke with wanted photocopies of all my paperwork anyway. Fine. So then I went to the right office, but there was no chief of the gendarmes there, who is the man I needed to speak to. That was trip #1. Trip #2 - met the chief of the gendarmes, but was told I needed six copies of everything, and 600dh to apply, when I was told just 100dh. I got said photocopies, but called the PC to ask about the 600dh since that didn't seem right to me. PC called the gendarme, and told them no, 100dh was right. They agreed. Trip #3 - no chief of gendarmes at the office. Trip #4 - no chief of gendarmes at the office. Trip #5 - I took my six photocopies, and then was told, no, four would be fine. But they all needed to be notarized. Trip #6 - to the commune, where there is a notary. Done. Trip #7 - no chief of gendarmes at the office. Trip #8 - Handed in my notarized photocopies, but now my passport photos are too big. Last week they were fine. Sat in the gendarmes for nearly 2 hours while watching lovely, but technology-challenged chief painstakingly type all my information in the computer, then struggle with the 20-year old printer that likes to chew paper. According to him, I was born in United Kingdom, USA. Trip #9 - Hand in new photos, and apparently I'm done. I'm told nothing else is needed - but I'm still waiting for the phone call to tell me there's another thing they need. But, all that said and done, I still have to visit my gendarme once a month in order to get a renewed bit of paper that says I'm legal. Oof. I can only compare it to the Californian DMV, but worse. At least they don't keep changing the requirements on me.

Anyway, so that's that. Now, I'm going to try and avoid more food.

xoxo.

Thursday, December 2, 2010

Ruth and the Stories of the Small Successes

I've decided that this whole thing is going to be about small successes. If I can set myself a few small tasks to tackle each day, shwiya b shwiya (little by little), I'll get there. On Monday, my victory was picking up my suitcase from the bus station where it had been delivered for me. Of course then, I had to drag my effing 50 pound suitcase through rain, mud, rocks, and puddles for two miles to get the silly thing home, and yes, I cursed some (or a lot) of the way. But I succeeded and I now have all my possessions in one place at one time, for the first time in two months. Despite the severe lack of big shoes, chocolate, and cheese contained in my suitcase, this success is very happy making.


On Tuesday, my success was asking about houses for rent in the town. I went to a couple of the four hanoots in the town, and asked the men there, in very halting darija - there was a lot of pep talking to myself before doing this: since I live in such a small town, anything I do is fodder for everyone basically, so I rehearsed the conversation in my head several times before attempting it. And of course it didn't go the way I planned, but Hamed at the hanoot humored me greatly, and I'm pretty sure I understood what he was saying. Which was that there is another house in town for rent (besides the one I know about), but the man who owns it is currently on the pilgrimage to Mecca, so I would have to bletti shwiya (wait a little), maybe a week or two, until he returned. Mashi mushkil. No problem.


I'd like to take a second and talk about a couple of darija words that I love.

- Shwiya. The word of many meanings. Can be 'a little', as in, "bgit zid atay? yih, shwiya, shukran." ("Would you like more tea? Yes, a little, thank you.") Of course, if you ask for 'a little' more of something, you're going to get a lot, so it doesn't really work in that context. Can also mean sketchy, as in, "shwiya internet". I have that - internet that comes and goes. There's the phrase shwiya b shwiya, as in above, which I say about 50 times a day, especially when someone is telling me I know no darija, and understand nothing.

- Mashi mushkil. No problem. It's just fun to say, that's all. Go on, try it. Plus it's a basic and much needed phrase.

- Safi. Means enough. Or that's all. Or okay. Or use it as a question. Or I like to say it at the end of sentences just because I can.


Today, I had a few small successes - and they are really silly, but whatever gets me through the day, right? Today was about conversational successes, ie. making myself understood. I went to the cyber, the photocopying shop, the post office, the mul xodra (vegetable man) and the association I'm going to be working with, and managed to ask where I could get photocopies, get the photocopies I needed, ask about my package coming to me, shoot the breeze, and get some product to take with me to Marrakech to show and maybe sell. All in that order. And on my own. Ha. Take that darija.


In a couple of minutes my task will be explaining to my host mum that I will be leaving the house at 7am to walk the 40 minutes to the next town (see below) to get the bus to Marrakech at 8am. The challenge here is that my host mum is I'm sure going to berate me about the early hour, and insist on making me breakfast (which I won't want that early in the morning) and then I'll feel bad that she's going to insist on getting up, when she usually doesn't get up until later than this. Wish me luck.


One other thing I'm going to mention quickly, because I'm sure I'll refer to it later, and it definitely confused the hell out of me when I first got here: the town next to mine has three names. Not one, not two, three. The official name on the sign is Oulad Teima. It's also called Houara. I have no idea why (maybe I'll discover that later). And the other name, which is my favorite, is Rbea u Rbein. Which means forty-four. 44. It's called this because it is exactly 44 kilometers from Agadir to the West and 44 kilometers from the town of Taroudant to the East. I think that's quite good really. And it's also another fun one to say. So if I talk about going to 44, you now know what I'm on about!


Oh, and I learned how to knit! Just going to throw that out there. I'm going to come back from Morocco an old lady - you've all been warned. I now knit, and later I will learn crocheting. Although, on the crocheting front, what I really want to learn is the crocheting with metal. Much cooler than just crocheting, although much more difficult and hard on the hands.


Anyway, safi. Up the stairs I go. (If there were stairs in this house.)


xoxo.

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Saturday, November 27, 2010

Ruth and the Big Move to the Big Dust Bowl.

Since LEid, I've eaten a large amount of sheep. I'm talking for every meal - except breakfast, which I skip - although other volunteers were lucky enough to have brains for breakfast. Mmmm. Since my last post, we had dinner on Wednesday, which consisted of five heads - count them, five - two were goat and three were sheep. And honestly, it was one of the most disgusting things I've ever seen. Watching people sucking on eyeballs is not something I want to see again in my two years here. Going to be avoiding that next year. Luckily I managed to not have to eat any myself, since I explained earlier in the day to my host family that I don't kill my own animals at home, and no, I really didn't know what happened to the head after it was killed. Maybe some people eat it, but not me. And they laughed at me. And so, ended my first LEid Kbir.

On Friday we had our community party to which we invited everyone we knew in the community, and cooked food for them, and said goodbye to some that we wouldn't see again before leaving. Turns out that garlic bread is widely misunderstood in Morocco - people don't like for you to mess with their hobz (bread). Remembering that bread is used as a food vehicle at every single meal, when you add garlic and butter to it, you will confirm that you are indeed crazy Americans, and think your bread is 'ugly'. Lesson learned.

Sunday, we jumped on the coach back to the beach town that we started out in when we first arrived in Morocco, and spent the afternoon either repacking or doing last minute studying. Language Proficiency Interviews were first thing on Monday morning, which I happily passed (thank goodness), and passed a little better than I thought I would, yay! Still going to need that tutor though…

Wednesday we were shipped off to Rabat for our swearing in ceremony, which was attended by the the US Ambassador to Morocco, which was kind of special. It was great to be back with our entire group again, and congratulate each other on making it through the last 70 days, seemingly in one piece still, and presumably with some vague knowledge of the language that would help with our survival in the next two years. I was trying to concentrate on breathing for the most part since I've managed to find myself with cold number two since being here. Boo. For the evening we wound up at the American Club in Rabat, and despite not being able to taste very much, I definitely enjoyed my celebratory cold beer, and subsequent Thai food (not at the American Club, to avoid confusion). Honestly, still not sure how I will survive only having Thai food on rare occasions, as opposed to my previous at least once a week habit. Fingers crossed.

So, now, I write from the living room of my new host family (who I think are probably wondering why the Peace Corps sent them a sick volunteer who wants to do nothing but sleep). Arrived yesterday after the night in Marrakech (which I mostly slept through, thanks, cold), to find myself now living in a huge dust bowl. It's cooled down since I was last here - it's still about 70 degrees, which is fine, but super windy, which kicks up all the dust. There have been scattered showers though, which helps in keeping that down. Seems like rain and wind are the primary components of winter here. Maybe I will need my boots after all…

I've plenty to tackle now that I'm finally moved here - looking for a house, finding a tutor, picking up my luggage from the CTM station (somehow), meeting with my artisans, meeting the area delegate, the list goes on… although looking for a house is top of the list. I've been living out of a suitcase for 10 weeks, 3 days, 6 hours and 27 minutes, and I'm over it. I don't even know what I have with me anymore, which is not my favorite state of being.

Anyway, there's probably more to tell, but I can't think of it right now, so I'm ending this ramble here and now.

xoxo.

** Oh wait - we all thought LEid was over?? Ha - apparently not! I was just served a tagine with what I thought was just lamb in it, but my host mum told me, through fits of giggles (because she didn't know the word in English, and therefore had to act it out), that part of it was the testicles. That's nice. Didn't eat it.

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Ruth and the Silence of the Lambs

(Tuesday evening, 9:41 pm)
So, it's the night before LEid and I've already seen two sheep heads, on the grill, on fire, having their fur burned off their faces. That's dinner tonight. And the feasting hasn't even begun - technically there still another three sheep that my family are going to slaughter tomorrow, although I don't know exactly where those are being kept.

(Tuesday evening, 9:53 pm)
Now I know where the sheep are. There are in the wood shed, but way up on top of all the wood, so they can't get out when you open the door… And they all have that look in their eye… they know what's going to happen to them. Poor sheep.

(Wednesday afternoon, 4:54 pm)
Something I've discovered: it was goat innards I was eating last night. Fact.
It's interesting to think just how many sheep have been killed today. My family killed three (plus two goats), the family next door killed two, two other volunteers have two that I know of, family friends have two, plus 4 chickens - in this town of 2500 people alone, there must have been hundreds of sheep slaughtered, not to mention hundreds of goats and chickens. Now multiply that across Morocco…

So, I woke up this morning about 7.30, got dressed in my finest (which is not that fine by standards these days) and went to my family's house (my family lives in two houses, but that's another story), where is was absolutely packed with people, maybe 30% of whom I actually knew. I have no idea who everyone else was, but greetings abounded, no matter that I had no idea who they were. Apparently I missed the mass breakfast, so I was promptly given my own bowl of hrira (the rice with milk kind) before my host-nephew led me to his house to find his sister. No luck, so we went visiting. The morning of LEid is spent doing just that - visit everyone you know! So, I was fed all sorts of sweet heluwa (cakes) - and we're talking at 9 in the morning still. Then the fun really began. On the walk back home I saw a huge number of sheep in any given stage of the process - being led to slaughter, just been killed, hanging in garages, skins being peeled off, heads and feet being burned. At my home I in fact missed the first sheep being killed (but no matter, there's two more), since I stopped in the street for more greeting and to watch a sheep have it's insides pulled out. My family and I sat in their large shed, and my host my burned the head and feet of the first sheep, while the insides were pulled out and cleaned, and the fat dried. Promptly the liver, heart, intestines, and I'm sure some other bits and pieces were put on the grill, and everyone feasted on liver wrapped in fat and fat sandwiches. Then sheep two was killed, and not long after, sheep three met its maker.

Lunch was all sorts of innards - stomach, liver, intestines, and other unidentifiable pieces. Meanwhile, all of this was being washed down with copious amounts of tea - I think I've drunk more tea today than in the last two months combined. Not sure what dinner's going to be, as I understand the meat is not served until tomorrow. We've got three livers to get through though, so I'm guessing that will be on the menu. The intestines that I ate last night, by the way, not all that bad. I only had a couple of small pieces, but I can tick that box now.

It quieted down considerably after lunch, and it's now picking back up again - more people visiting the house. Since I live with one of the leaders of the community, its seems that everyone visits here at some point or another. In between people visiting, my host mum gets out a big basket that holds all the dried fat, and the livers, and starts wrapping them up…

If I had ever watched silence of the lambs, I'm sure it would be just like that. A very intense and bloody day.

Tomorrow is another day of holiday - not sure what that holds in store, but whatever happens, I'm pretty sure that there are going to be more innards in my innards before the end of the day.

On that note…

xoxo.

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Ruth and the Rare Malik Sighting

Our CBT town has been abuzz for the past couple of days, as the King has been scheduled to drive through the town, on his way back from a visit to another town. The last time the King drove through our town, he ordered the town to be redeveloped and beautified. So, ever since we arrived and before, there has been unpaved roads, random holes, piles of rocks or dirt, a detour (on the one main road in town), and my favorite, the two foot cliff from the sidewalk to the road. When we first spoke to the Qaid, who is one of the officials in the town, he told us everything would be completed within two months. Well, as far as we could tell that wasn't going to happen. Then, word came down that the King was going to be driving through again, and there was a mad scramble - ditches were filled in overnight, holes magically disappeared; there still hasn't been any paving to speak of, but the roads are at least flat again, and resemble roads as opposed to dirt tracks. Then last night, Moroccan flags appeared everywhere in town - and I mean everywhere - including covering entire hanoots (stores). So, we went down to see the King after lunch (after several false alarms of course), and waited with the rest of the town's population and more, who lined the entire length of the town. There were bands lined up about every 50m playing different styles of folklore music, some Berber, some Moroccan. So, drive through he did - and he was even driving the car himself - driving with one hand and waving with the other. So, it was a very quick sighting, but I've seen the King of Morocco, everyone. Then followed the largest entourage I've ever seen… a good five minutes of European cars ensued - even as we were walking away, they were still driving past. No such thing as traveling light when you're the King of Morocco!


This week is our last souq in our current town - next week is lEid El Kbir, the Big Feast, so it was a rather intense souq - everyone was shopping for Eid, including buying their sheep that will be sacrificed. There were definitely a lot more people than usual, and all of them were on a mission for sure - don't get in the way. Our family has 3 sheep; because two of the sons in the family live overseas, we're slaughtering sheep for them too. Day one is the innards eating, followed by the rest of the meat on day two - I'm going to be all sheeped out by Friday for sure. I'm still debating whether to post any pictures I get of the actual slaughter - thoughts on a postcard.


(Saturday)

We're now in the count down of the final week of CBT, and it's going to be a busy one. We have Monday and Tuesday in class, and Eid is now on Wednesday - it was unclear whether it was going to start on Wednesday or Thursday, since it's based on the new moon. Then we have our CBT party on Friday, and Saturday to pack up! Next Wednesday we will be sworn in as real volunteers - trainees no longer will we be!


Anyway, I've now gone and gotten myself another cold - yes, that's two in as many months… probably something to do with it being freezing cold in this town - so I'm going to bundle myself back up in bed with two hot water bottles, two wool blankets, a duvet, wool socks and all my clothes on. Take that, cold!


Today, I went for a short hike up on the rocks behind our school, and as I was walking out of my house, there were two small girls walking towards me. They cannot have been more than 3 or 4 years old, but I said hello to them (in darija, of course) and they both came bounding up to me for kisses on the cheeks. It's amazing, that, and yes, it's a small town here, but the children have no concept of the idea of not talking to strangers, which of course is the notion that I was raised upon. Just interesting, and it made my day a little bit.


Ktr mnb3d LEid!

(More after Eid!)


xoxo

Tuesday, November 9, 2010

Ruth and the Sunset Photo Madness

Sorry for the mass photo post, but it's been a while. A short explanation follows as I've been all over the place. Sorry in advance for all the sunset photos, but they are pretty, and I got carried away, okay?

1. Goat on mountain. In current town.
2. Current town from top of said mountain.
3. Mars. From the roof of our hotel in which we have our training meetings.
4. Same town as above.
5. Lake somewhere between Kenifra and Azrou.
6. Mosque in Marrakech!
7. Mosque in Marrakech again!
8. My final site (Ain Chaib) from just outside the town.
9. The larger city (Ouled Teima) next to my site, from outside my town.
10. View from the window of my new homestay family's house. Pomegranate orchard!
11. Mosque in Marrakech, part 3. (Sorry...)
12. Random town on the drive to Marrakech.
13. The desert.
14. The desert again.
15. And some more. There's a lot of it about.
16. Small town in the mountains near Beni Mellal
17. Same. Big mountain.
18. Me and CBT mates.
19. Surroundings of current town at 7am.

xoxo!


















Monday, November 8, 2010

Ruth and the Muskina Mutataweia

Well today I'm feeling sufficiently recovered from the past week - I slept for a solid 10 hours last night - so amazing. Even though I'm now back to freezing my behind off - in my room it's been around 9 degrees all day - about 50 degrees fahrenheit, also known as really cold for inside the house. While I was gone my family acquired the biggest furno I've ever seen, which is amazing. Very helpful for defrosting my hands when I'm trying to make flashcards to study with. And there's a lot of those going on at the moment. It would appear that our language proficiency tests are next week already. Not sure when that happened, but from now until next Tuesday or Wednesday (we don't know which day it'll be on) will be henceforth known as study week.


When I arrived back in my CBT town, my family was excited to see me back which was nice - even though most of the comments directed to me for the evening were along the lines of 'Muskina! Baeida!' which means 'Poor thing! Far!' referring to the fact that I'm a good 12/13 hours travel from here. It was nice to feel like my language improved a little while I was gone, so I could almost have conversations about my new town (conversations that include sentences without verbs, or incorrectly conjugated verbs, that is, but I'm going to call them conversation, okay?). Sorry family, but weekend visits are now a little harder for me. But this week we are having a family gathering on Wednesday afternoon, with all of our families - some tea and biscuits and a general chat about cross cultural bits and pieces. We will then also have a party next Friday, 2 days before we leave for good, which will be everyone - our families plus people in the community that we've made friends with. We'll then have a day to pack and then Sunday we wave goodbye. While in hub this weekend, the general consensus was that everyone is pretty excited about their new towns though, which is good news. Most of us are also planning to go to the craft fair in Marrakech in early December also, so that's exciting.


Some of us went for a good hike this morning, up one of the mountains behind the town, and got some amazing view of the town, and we all discussed how it's actually much, much warmer outside than in our houses. We've all had plenty of stories to trade about our new locations, and we're all still working out how far we are from each other and the such. I think we're also running a bathroom competition - so far we have an outhouse, turk in a pre-school and cockroaches crawling out of the turk (while in use) all as contenders. (Mine was the last one, btw. Yeah. Flushed that bastard, stat.) (Sorry for swearing Mum, but really - it was huge, and crawling out of the toilet at me. Pretty sure it had fangs.) Down South has some big insects, just to make that clear. My current family did assure me that Agadir is a beautiful city; they have family there, so I believe they visit from time to time. I've been doing some reading on Agadir, and the coastal area, which I'm very excited to explore. I'm eager to get back in a couple of weeks and attempt to sort out my housing situation so that I can start to get settled somewhere. Something to note about my new town - there are no addresses for the houses!


Also, just FYI, a few things I've learned about myself since I've been here.

1. I get carsick. Fact. Especially when in a coach on the road between Azrou and Kenitra. People here know what I'm talking about. Heinous.

2. I don't require as much alone time as I originally thought - not to say I don't like it, but it is possible for me to survive without it. As long as I get a couple of hours to organize my brains once a week or so.

3. I have no problem wearing a hat to bed.

4. I have no problem not showering for longer than maybe hygienic periods. Again, not that I like to do this, but I can survive if I need to. However, I do refuse to go without my favorite shampoo and conditioner - available in Morocco, thank goodness.

5. I really, really don't like olives, and really, really never will. Or hard-boiled eggs (of which I've had to eat two this week). But I'm actually okay with mint tea.


I'm sure there will be more to add to that list, but that's all for now.

Anyway, off to bed in my ice box.


xoxo.

Friday, November 5, 2010

Ruth and the Middle of the Desert

I'm going to back track over the last couple of days - this is going to be a long blog post - bear with me - but I'm going to talk a while since this is all about my final site!

So Sunday morning, we set off at 8 am for the Supratour station - there are several different types of coaches you can take within Morocco, and I've now tried several of them, and I've decided that I'm a fan of the CTM buses - CTM is government owned, and it's a little more expensive (25 DHs more on the way back from Kech) but it has air conditioning, which, when you're going to be living in a region that gets to 120 degrees in the summer, becomes very important.

There is another PCT in a site not far from me, so she and I traveled to Agadir, stopped and had lunch - fish tagine - obviously I need to explore Agadir more, but it would make sense that there is a fair amount of fish there. The LCF of another of our CBT groups is from there, so I'll be asking her for tips and hints.

After this, we went to the taxi station to get a petit taxi to the next town, Inzegan, from which we could both get grand taxis going our separate ways. I managed to negotiate that, in darija - was feeling pretty good about it, but turns out I was given the wrong address for my host family (which of course I didn't find out until 4 days later). I was given the address of my host mum's father, who lives in the large town next to mine, so unfortunately I ended up spending an obscene amount in a petit taxi that had to keep stopping and asking people if they knew my host family on the way there. Fun times! Now I know for the next time I suppose - it will be so much easier getting back.

So, I arrived around 3.30pm on Sunday, and met my host mum, Noura, who is great. She speaks some English, which is incredibly helpful as one can imagine. She is a stay at home mum to her 4 year old boy, Aymane, and likes watching arabic music videos, and blasting the stereo while she's cleaning each morning. Nourdine is my host dad, who is a farmer, and he works from 5am until around 8pm, coming home during the day for lunch some days. The little boy goes to kindergarden from 8am to 11am each day, and then generally runs around playing with the other neighborhood kids for the rest of the day.

After arriving, I was promptly introduced to all the people in the same courtyard of houses, who are actually all related to my family. The houses in my town are built differently than in the North - there is a central courtyard, off of which there are lots of doors to the rooms of the house, but you can't go through the rooms to another - you go out in to the courtyard. So in my courtyard, most everyone is somehow related to my host dad - he has 4 or 5 brothers and sisters, and at least 2 or 3 of them, plus their families, live in this courtyard.

Amina (and I'm unclear on the relationship to Nourdine) became my guide for my visit, which was really helpful, even though she speaks no English. Although I feel like my darija improved over the last couple of days, there was still some miming going on between she and I, but she was such a huge help in introducing me to people like my mul xodra - vegetable guy - who I went and sat with for a couple of hours on Wednesday, and he tested me on vegetable vocabulary. He also took me to see another of the co-ops in Ouled Teima, which is the town next to me.
Which brings me to Ouled Teima, which is a town of 60,000 people about 2km from Ait Chaib, and is my souk town. The souk there appears to be every single day, and has everything. There's quite the contrast between Ain Chaib and Ouled Teima - Ain Chaib is, as far as I can tell, is mostly women and children - I'm not sure what happens to the men during the day, but they seem to disappear to somewhere. The children have to come from somewhere, so they must be around. But Ouled Teima is mostly men, like all the hanoot owners and souq stall owners, so even after a couple of days in a town with all women, it was a little intimidating to be in a town full of men, especially as the American (well, English, we all know that) woman in town.

To jump to the women in my town - so I went to the co-op I will be working with seem great. They met with a distributor on Wednesday, who sells their product in Rabat and Marrakech as far as I can tell. Just as something to remember - all of this information is what I'm deciphering through limited darija - so some details may be inaccurate, since I don't know what they're talking about a lot of the time. But the products that they make are embroidered table runners, place mats, and napkins, crocheted bags for cell phones and candles, and amazing crocheted wire bracelets, earrings and necklaces. There is a craft fair in Marrakech at the beginning of December which my women are on the pending list for, but I'm going to attend anyway in order to get an idea of how the craft fair works - it's a Peace Corps initiated fair, so it'll be interesting to see in action.

So yesterday I left my town to get back to Marrakech (where I had real pizza, btw - it was pretty exciting in terms of the past two months), and met back up with a number of the Youth Development volunteers who are in what we've already dubbed the Dirty South with us. And what happens in the South, stays in the South, just remember that.

Anyway… I'm tired from being up since 5.30 am and being sat on a coach for 8.5 hours, so I'm done for now. If I think of something else I will let you all know! And there will be pictures soon.

xoxo.

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Ruth and the Super Exciting Trip to Kech

So, currently I am on a coach (the most scary coach ever, but I have a modem, yay!) to Marrakech. We've just departed a beautiful city called Beni Mel'al, which has the most amazing mountainous backdrop.

To backtrack - the last 24 hours have been a bit nuts - we all found out our final site assignments last night, and I think I lucked out once again! My douar is called Ain Chaib (Sha-yab), which is all the waaaaay down South. I'm in a town of 1600 people (which sounds perfect), 2 km from another, bigger town, Ouled Teima (which is on Google Maps!) and is about 60,000 people, and I will be less than an hour from Agadir! Agadir is one of the big beach towns in Morocco, a tourist site for sure, but I'm sure will be great for getting away. Ouled Teima sounds like it has a lot of commodities that'll come in handy, banks and the such, but I'm excited and glad to be somewhere slightly smaller. The next week is going to be very interesting and exciting!

The work that I will be doing looks to be with a group of women that produce I think wire crochet goods, but there's also argon oil, ceramics, leather making and tailoring in the area. I'm super excited, and I'm plan on coming back an expert in crocheting. I spoke to a PCV who's COSing next month who knows my town and the current PCV there, and she said it's a group of amazing women, super motivated, and making great product, so I'm excited to get involved. And sounds like there's a fair bit of opportunity for things like teaching, and other secondary projects. There are a number of other PCV's in the area (not in the same town) but 4 or 5 within about an hour of me.

So, as I said, I'm now on a coach to Kech, which is about 3 hours from my final site. We (who is me and 2 other PCT's who are in the same general area) will stay the night, and we're hearing reports that there are a number of Youth Development trainees also staying there tonight, so we'll be able to have some good catch up with them. Tomorrow I will make the rest of the trip (on my own, in darija - oh yes!), from Kech to Agadir, and then into Ain Chaib, to meet my new host family.

Unfortunately, all the way in the south, I'm far from most other people in our SBD group, and from most of the people in my CBT... boo. But, last time I checked, people always want to come to the beach, so hopefully I'll have lots of visitors.

That's all for now, before the computer dies, but I'll be sure to give another update soon - complete with pictures of Marrakech!

xoxo

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Ruth and the Absolutely Terrifying and Awesome Genies

So the past couple of days have yet again escaped me, but I wanted to post before the inevitable madness of the next 10 days begins.


First - Saturday at the Hamaam. Saturday was freezing cold, complete with rain and mud - the perfect day for being warm and toasty inside. At 3 o'clock, Khadisha, who makes our food at school, came by to pick us all up, laden with buckets, stools, and dipper-thingys, and off we went. There are 4 rooms in our hamaam - first the changing room, so in we went, stripped down to bottom undies only, and stashed all our belongings. Then you go through to the first room, which is a little warmer than the first, but not a lot. In here hair washing and conditioning is usually done, but that's not the first step. We went through to the second room, again carrying all our buckets, dippers, and stools, and set ourselves up in a line facing the way. There are faucets at intervals all the way around the room (some of which are dysfunctional in this hamaam, and some apparently just have one set of faucets near the door), so we placed buckets under the ones in front of us and set about filling them. Then, using the traditional soap, which is argon oil-based, we began the scrubbing. And then scrubbed some more. And then the spaghetti began coming off us all. But we kept scrubbing. And then Khadisha called each of us over one by one to literally scrub our backs raw. There is also a women in the hamaam who will throw you down on her mat and scrub you all over, for a fee. Managed to avoid that, but it looked intense. So, cleanly scrubbed, you can then go in to the hot room if you so choose, where if you have mat you can lay on the hot tile floor (which you'll want a mat to do). I didn't make it in to that room this time, because it actually wasn't as warm as I had been told it would be - probably because it was fairly quiet when we were there - the more people in there, the hotter it gets. The point of the story is that I got really clean though, much needed. We came out, and per tradition everyone says bsHHa, which means, to your health - said after the hamaam, buying new clothes, a haircut, or such.


Sunday was the first that our CBT group spend in our site - usually we've been venturing off somewhere, leaving all our families undoubtedly wondering where we've got to, especially when we turn up again, covered in mud. So, first on my priority list was having a lie-in, the first since, um… yeah. In a while. After breakfast in the new house, I helped my host mum do some cleaning - reorganizing the salon, straightening the pillows, then in the kitchen with taking out the trash and the such. Then we all lounged in the salon, with various neighbors and friends flitting in and out, and I tackled the massive amount of homework we'd been given (all in good practice, I know). Lunch was the main affair of the day, yummy tagine with lots of veggies. The for most of the afternoon, neighbors continued to come and go in a constant stream, but it was generally pretty quiet. I managed to get in some much needed rearranging of luggage, and general sorting out, and even an episode of Flight of the Conchords. Since lunch was the main meal of the day, the evening was quiet, with my host parents both dropping off in front of the tv - it was funny how much it was like being at home!


This morning a few of us went on a early morning hike before school today, which was great - since we sit in school 10 hours a day, every day, it's nice to stretch our legs from time to time and scramble up the side of a mountain. We saw the sun come over the mountain, and had a great view of the whole town from the vantage point we ended up at.


This afternoon, we spent a couple of hours talking about genies, which are very much believed in in Islam, and a really interesting conversation. It is believed that genies are similar forms to human beings, and generally benign, unless you provoke them in someway. They are everywhere, although we can't see them, but our teacher told us stories of friends of his who had acted as innocently as pouring some hot water down the toilet, inadvertently on to a genie, who then basically possessed them. The tale that followed was of how this girl had the genie inside of her and became very ill, and acted very out of character, and the only way to get rid of the genie is to have the imam (the leader of the mosque) perform a ritual similar to an exorcism - reading verses of the koran, until the genie promises to leave the persons body and never return. It was really interesting to hear about it - especially as compared genies as I know them, which is pretty much based on Disney's Aladdin - they usually look and sound like Robin Williams. But in some ways the Islamic beliefs are similar to our ideas about spirits or ghosts.


Our teacher informed us after this discussion that we've officially worked our way through all of the material that we were going to be learning, so we're to spend the remainder of our time reviewing and getting ready for our language proficiency tests (eep!) which are on the 15th and 16th of November. We learned this week all the sorts of phrases that we're going to need for our site visits - we leave on Sunday, and are expected to negotiate taking a taxi or bus to our new site on our own, where (hopefully) either a current PCV or host family member will meet us. We are now slightly (not fully) armed with phrases like, where is my bedroom, please, and I will be here for the next 5 days, god willing, and the Peace Corps is an American organization, for those who have no idea why an American just showed up on their doorstep. Oh, and my favorite, b shwiya, aefak! Which, in context means, speak slower, please!


This weekend we also found out that while we're in hub we're having Halloween night, and a faux-wedding on Saturday as a cross-cultural experience. I'm sure there will be plenty of pictures from all that, so at the very latest I'll be able to post again when we're back in hub late next week, in'shallah.


Until then,


R.


xoxo.

Friday, October 22, 2010









Ruth and the Tale of the Tropical Frog and Tasty Eel

So last night, I got home around 11pm, and went in to the bathroom. The door in the bathroom sticks, so I leant against the door in order to shove it closed, like I usually do. And at this point, I realized there was a frog about 6 inches from my face - climbing up the wall next to the door! It was very cute, once I overcame my initial surprise - it looked like a little tropical frog! I have no idea how it got in the bathroom - the only window is high up on the wall, although it is open, with just a plastic bag over it, so it's possible. Either that or one of the drains. It looked at me, and just kept climbing up the wall, sliding down a little, climbing up more. Cute. Oh, and then I realized it was so cold in the bathroom I could see my breath. So I crawled under the weight of my 2 wool blankets and duvet, and tried not to think about it!


We've been eating a lot of fish lately - today we had eel. And I was going to not try it, but at the last minute decided I would. And it was surprisingly good. A bit mushy, but not very fishy at all. After all the fish was eaten, we put all the pieces of the bone back together - the fish ran nearly the entire length of our table. Impressive fish.


Also got my first stalker today - someone apparently managed to get my phone number, not sure how, and decided to call me 4 times and sent me two blank texts in the space of about 15 minutes. Whoever he is is now Do Not Answer in my phone. Apparently, this is fairly common in Morocco - being called by complete strangers. We've talked in school about how people can meet spouses this way. The lady who lives across the street from school met her now husband on the phone - he called her, and they got to chatting, and now they're married. However, Mr. DNA, whoever you are, don't even think about it. Denied. Luckily he gave up, just as we had decided that the next time he called one of the guys in my group would answer my phone for me pretending to be my husband.


Yesterday we learned about body parts in class, which had all of us in fits at times. We learned that the word for leg, is the same as the word for calf, and also for foot. And then we learned that toes are the same word as fingers, which is very close to the word for the number seven. So, to say toes, you say the fingers of my legs, which can be mistaken for you actually saying the sevens of my legs. In addition to this, the word for heart is very close to the word for dog. So you can bet we spent the next couple of minutes saying things like, "my dog is beating really fast" or "my heart was barking last night!" It really is the little things that amuse us when we're sat in our classroom all day long. I also learned how to say I'm allergic to olives, which I'm not, but I fully plan on using this sentence for the next two years. And yes, I have tried the olives here, for those of you who thought I was going to come back after two years liking them… sorry, I just can't make it happen!


Tomorrow finally going to the hammam - will definitely have an update about that after the fact. Very excited (to be clean again). The Sunday, a day of quiet (and trying to get my head around the conditional in darija.)


xoxo

Ruth and the Beautiful Zaouia Ifran









Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Ruth and the Tremendously Fun Sleepover

I'm not sure where the last week has gone to. On October 15th we hit the been-here-a-month mark, although it still doesn't feel like this is now where I live, probably for obvious reasons, mostly because I don't feel like I've had a spare minute to gain any perspective on the last month.

Today my family moved my room for me, so I am typing from the luxury of my two sofa benches pushed together, in my much smaller room, which is slightly warmer than my massive former residence - yay! I also have a lock on my door, which I discovered was not so much the safety of me and my belongings, but just because the door doesn't latch, so locking it is the only way to keep it closed. I'm the only person in the house at the moment, as everyone else is now sleeping in the new house that they have built right next door.

Our group went to the neighboring town this weekend to meet the CBT group that's there at the moment, as well as 4 PCT's from a group in the South and 3 from a group East of us. There were 18 PCT's and one PCV in total, which made for very cozy sleeping quarters, but we had amazing Mexican food, and a really fun night. The town is very small - between 200 and 300 people, and is the only Berber speaking CBT group in our staj. The next morning some of us hiked up the mountain behind the village - no idea what the altitude was mostly because I can't find the town or the mountain on my map of Morocco (sounds familiar, right?), but the view was amazing. My legs are not thanking me today. (Vicky and Al - think Yosemite Falls, times about 3. Yeah.) I managed to get sunburned, so when I got home my family spent the rest of the evening asking me if I was sick with a fever, and when I would say no and say it was from the sun, they would laugh at me and call me a tomato, and point out the fact that you can see my sunglass tan line. But my fellow CBT'er and I rounded off the night with a dance party in the kitchen, which was very amusing. There is video footage, which will be forthcoming as soon as I can work that out. Same with pictures.

So, now we're back to language this week, which I feel like pieces of which are starting to fall in to place - just takes me a (very long) minute to think of what I'm trying to say before spitting it out. The tenses are all mixed up in my head, but I did realize that I was starting to think in darija a little, as I was trying to compose a sentence in French in my head (it's a language mess in my head apparently) and started putting darijian prepositions in it. It was weird. We met with our taɛawunya dyal elayalat (co-op of women) again today, during which we all had questions to ask in darija, so that was sort of fun, and a small personal victory in the I-just-read-an-entire-paragraph-in-darija-and-they-actually-understood-what-I-was-saying arena. Yay me. Quite funny on the way home, we were walking past a couple of little girls, and I said hello to one of them in darija, who promptly replied with "F**k you!" Clearly someone had told her that this was the correct response when an American says hello to you! I was rather amused by said three-year old.

This weekend I'll be going to the hamaam, in'shallah, which I'm looking forward to, mostly so I can call myself clean again, but also so I can see how it all works. The weekend is the only time that we can go as the women's hours are between noon and 6 each day, so we're always in school. We'll be staying in our own town this weekend though, as next Friday we'll be off to hub again followed by 4 days of final site visits (eep!) so we'll be gone for about 8 days total. Must cram in as much language as possible before we leave so I'm not the idiot volunteer in my final site.

I realized I haven't talked much about the food, so I'm going to do a little bit of that right now. Fruit selection here is pretty fantastic - my family has a quince tree growing over the house, so they climb up on the roof and gather the fruit, which then gets cooked in quarters with usually a lamb tagine, with potato and peas, etc. We had prickly pears the other night, which I've never had before; was pretty excited about that. Apples, bananas, and grapes are pretty much staples at the end of a meal. We had the most amazing figs from the souq when we first arrived - the last of the season, but looking forward to getting them again next year. For lunches we have a lovely cook that makes our meals - Hadiša - who usually makes us a tagine with chicken or lamb or fish with beans, tomatoes, potatoes, carrots, and/or peas, and a salad on the side of tomatoes, onions and cucumbers. We have discovered more cheeses, only available in large cities, but this week we've had edam and camembert - something that I'm sure will be a rarity for us in the next two years. And most of you know how my relationship with cheese goes. I've found drinkable yogurts that I'm having for breakfast each morning, pomegranate flavored - as I didn't do well with having a large hunks of bread, olive oil, cheese triangles, jam, coffee, and tea for breakfast. A little too much for me at 7.45 each morning.

Back to the darija… 10 days until final site announcements!

xoxo